Unpopular opinions pt.1

Hey yall hey

EyeYawnna here

Just gonna share some unpopular opinions

I feel like we need a longer lunch break. Most times it’s like 2 fifteen minutes and then a 30 minute break. If you’re lucky they may combine it and you hit jack pot and get a full hour lunch. My biggest complaint with the two fifteen minute breaks is that 15 minutes be flying by. That’s enough time to heat up a cup of noodles and take a little bathroom break. The 30 minute stretch is better .. barely. If you go out to get lunch you either don’t have enough time to eat or you eat it on the way back and don’t enjoy it. Now if you pack your own lunch your in there but that 30 minutes still gonna breeze by.

Another thing private accounts are more peaceful. Like Seriously. And I mean I’m all for being out there. I’m on almost every platform. But something about just being private and selective is good. You Don’t have to have certain energies in your orbit. No unwanted eyes peeking through. Just your peace . Until you’re ready to pop out again.

Another unpopular opinion is that you can always agree to disagree with someone without it being a big thing. We’re humans. We don’t all agree. Some conversations may come and you can feel off the jump your opinions won’t align together. but that’s okay. Being open minded to other perspectives is good. My go to line is “ we can agree to disagree”. Because at the end of the day we both may not see eye to eye on a specific topic. We can agree or disagree all day but we still will feel how we feel.so I guess my point is just being open for that

Another unpopular opinion is that context matters more than intent sometimes, and I say that because it does. Let’s say you accidentally step on somebody’s shoe. Your intent wasn’t, “I’m gonna ruin their day.” It was an accident. Intent matters there. But then there’s context. Let’s say somebody says, “I was just joking.” The intent may have been a joke, but if they made that joke after you’ve already had discussions about how that topic affects you, now the context changes how the joke lands. My point is there’s usually more to a situation than just what somebody intended. Context can completely change how something is received, understood, or viewed, and sometimes that can make or break how people see certain things.

Another unpopular opinion and some may disagree but I personally feel like having separate homes can be healthy for a relationship. And really I’m speaking on behalf of the people who actually need there space. Not in an unhealthy way but you more so need what is called “me time” which is up for debate too im sure lol . I’ve done the whole move together thing and it’s good until it isn’t. So I could see myself even happy even being Neighbors . We still gonna be together like all the time but we have our own you know. But of course this is a topic up for debate you know just depending on how you look at it.

Gonna do a part 2 on this yall