I See Who You Are Between Then and Now

For my son – on his birthday.

And for everyone

who had to let go

when their child

became a young man.

Sometimes we meet right in the feeling.

And sometimes we collide.

Words come faster than they should.

And everyone takes a step back.

You need distance then.

Not to leave.

But to make sure

that nothing breaks

that truly matters to you.

You carry a lot inside.

More than you show.

The feelings are there.

Deep and real.

You don’t give them away easily.

And sometimes I think:

We are more alike

than you might believe.

Sometimes it’s hard for me

to truly grasp

how my little boy

became a man

who stands firmly in his life.

You are still my little one.

My son.

My treasure.

And yet I see your hands.

How they build,

repair,

create.

Quiet strength.

No noise.

Just presence.

I remember the moment

you drove a car for the first time.

Suddenly there was someone

steering his own direction.

And now I see you,

holding your son in your arms.

And everything in me pauses for a moment.

Because I know:

You have arrived in your life.

You have a wonderful woman by your side.

A true partner.

And together you walk your path.

I am proud of you.

Of the man you are.

And yes –

I am proud of myself too,

for what you have become.

Never forget this:

You are seen.

By me.

And by so many others.

More than you may realize.

My little boy.

And now a damn good man.

I wish you nothing but the best

on your birthday.

I am so proud of you.

I love you.