I learned my manners at my grandpa’s table
“Yes sir, no ma’am,” calm and steady, stable
He never raised his voice, never had to
Somehow his quiet always told the truth
He showed me how to hold that cue just right
“Take your time, son,” on those long nights
Said life ain’t about how hard you swing
It’s knowing when to stand for something
Chorus
If I’m half the man my grandpa’s been
I’ll stand my ground when the world caves in
I’ll speak with kindness, I’ll walk with grace
I’ll try to leave this world a better place
Heroes fade with time and age
But his love’s written on every page
Yeah, if I’m half the man he is someday
I’ll know I found the right way
On those car rides he didn’t need a song
No radio playing, he’d just sing along
Pulling old melodies out of thin air
“Mister Bluebird on my shoulder,” without a care
Windows down, laughing all the way
Like nothing else mattered that day
Those miles felt safe, felt warm, felt right
Like the road would always lead us home at night
Friday nights were New York–style pizza
Big folded slices, couldn’t get better than that either
Grease on the box, paper plates on the table
Didn’t need much, we had more than enough
The way he loved my grandma said it all
Held her hand, stood proud and tall
Opened doors, pulled out chairs, slow danced when no one knew
Showed me what a real man’s supposed to do
He never crossed a line, never spoke in anger
Treated her heart like something sacred
That kind of love stays, it never fades
It’s the strongest lesson he ever gave
Chorus
If I’m half the man my grandpa’s been
I’ll stand my ground when the world caves in
I’ll speak with kindness, I’ll walk with grace
I’ll try to leave this world a better place
Heroes fade with time and age
But his love’s written on every page
Yeah, if I’m half the man he is someday
I’ll know I found the right way
Bridge
One day I’ll sing those songs out loud
Maybe off-key, maybe proud
And if someone laughs, I’ll understand
I sound just like that man
I’ll love the way he showed me how
Patient and steady, here and now
And if she smiles like my grandma did
I’ll know I finally lived
Final Chorus
If I’m half the man my grandpa’s been
I’ll love my people till the very end
I don’t need money, I don’t need fame
Just a life that honors his name
When I look back on the road I ran
I’ll thank God for that guiding hand
Yeah, if I’m half the man he is someday
I’ll know I lived the right way
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