[Verse 1]
Your toothbrush in my glass
Two plates in the drying rack
Your coat on my one chair
It’s small things
But they stare back
You’re folding your old life
Into my half-empty drawers
I’m scared of what this means
You just kick off your shoes on the floor (so sure)
[Pre-Chorus]
You trace my faded scars with your thumb
Ask the names of every one
Who walked away when it got rough
You say
“I stay when it gets tough” (I stay)
[Chorus]
We’re doing all the hard things
Soft hands
Meeting your mother
Changing my plans
Talking about money
About the meds I take
Sitting in the silence when we’re both afraid
Yeah
We’re doing all the hard things
First
Opening the wounds
Watching them hurt
But your head on my chest makes the dark make sense
If this is what love is
I don’t want less
[Verse 2]
You cry in my parked car
In that grocery lot at ten
Because I said I need
An hour alone now and then
You said
“That used to mean
They were halfway out the door”
I said
“Come closer
Please
Want you to want me and want more”
[Pre-Chorus]
You list the things you think might break us
All the ways you might erase us
I just hold your shaking wrist
Say
“You’re allowed to be like this”
[Chorus]
We’re doing all the hard things
Slow
Telling each other what we don’t know
Calling your father
Saying my real name
Owning the mess
Not hiding the shame
Yeah
We’re doing all the hard things
Bare
I lose my temper
You stay there
And your hand on my back pulls me through my past
If this is what love is
I want it to last
[Bridge]
[Bagpipes rising under held piano chords]
You meet my oldest friend who saw me break in two
You watch the way I stiffen up
You never look away
We stand outside the bar
The cold cuts straight us through
You lace your fingers into mine and suddenly I stay
You don’t promise perfect days
You just say
“I’ll call you back”
When I spiral
When I blackout
You just sit through all the black
And I don’t promise you forever
Just another honest night
But each hard word that we survive
Feels like tiny
Steady light (tiny light)
[Chorus]
We’re doing all the hard things
Now
Saying “I’m sorry” and learning how
To fight for the truth
Not to win the fight
To climb through the dark toward any kind of light
Yeah
We’re doing all the hard things
Pressed
Forehead to forehead
Chest to chest
And your breath in my ear cuts the noise in half
If this is what love is
I’m good with that
[Outro]
[Bagpipes and cello swell
Then fall away to solo piano and voice]
Leave your toothbrush in my glass
Two plates in the drying rack
If love starts here
In all this mess
With all these hard things
I’ll take this
I’ll take this