Verse 1
I used to think that strong meant loud
Holding the room, controlling the crowd
But I’ve seen fear in little eyes
When I’m tired and overwhelmed inside
I’m learning how to slow my breath
How to choose calm instead of defense
I don’t want power — I want peace
A softer voice that doesn’t sting
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Pre-Chorus
I’m breaking cycles I didn’t choose
Healing wounds I never used
I won’t pass down what hurt me
I’m becoming who they need
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Chorus
I wanna be gentle hands
Not raised voices, not slammed doors
A safe place they can land
Not something they brace for
I don’t have to be perfect
I just have to be present
Love doesn’t have to shout
To be loud
I’m learning what real strength is
And it’s softer than I thought
I’m growing into grace
With every battle I’ve fought
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Verse 2
Some days I feel the old me rise
Quick reactions, tired eyes
But I’m catching it before it spills
Choosing patience over will
I’m not erasing who I was
I’m honoring where I’ve come from
But my children will remember
A steady voice, a warm December
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Bridge
One day they’ll say,
“She felt like home.”
Not perfect — just safe
When the world felt cold
If I can give them that
Then I’ve already won
Not the loudest mom
Just the calmest one
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Final Chorus
I’m still learning, still growing
But I won’t let fear keep showing
The woman I used to be
Isn’t who I have to be
I’m becoming steady ground
Where their little hearts can land
Not feared
Not loud
Just gentle hands