This is how Pérez feels about it.
• Emotional betrayal. When I gave my whole heart and was cheated on, it changed me 💔.
• Trust issues. After lies and secrets, trusting another woman feels risky.
• Unhealed trauma. I still carry the pain from my first international relationship, but I pretend to be okay.
• Fear of being vulnerable and opening up again. The last time I did, I felt unsafe and got hurt.
• Wasted time. Investing years in someone who didn't value me makes me afraid to start over.
• Emotional neglect. Being with someone who makes me feel alone in a relationship affects me differently.
• Loss of identity. I lost my confidence, identity, and peace trying to make love work.
But this is my truth.
• I know not everyone is an ex.
I know I need to heal first; that's the real turning point. Loving again is possible, but only when I feel secure in myself. And I know this is a real disaster.