There are those who say they love you, they are tender, in a surreal way generous, and some times, they even seem like a best friend. They make sure to know your interest in life and what you are good at. They seem to have a glow about them when you are near and all their actions seem to be positive, so long as you decide to stay near.
The moment you stay the course of those interests, passions and purpose, over what they want you to do they will resent you. They may acuse you of having too high standards, or think too much of yourself. Then you become a nuisance. The problem is not with you but with their lack of purpose. They will start finding wrong with-in you and they’ll make sure they tell everyone. They will twist stories and exaggerate facts.
So, watch out for those that pride themselves on your company, your talents your achievements or ideas, but not on your success. Watch out for those who offer everything without wanting anything in return, but are expecting everything 10 fold in return. It feels like a faint sense of “they better do what ever I want because I have helped them before.
Mostly, it has been my observation that such people thrive in sucking up your energy, your time, your light…they see you and they recognize your beauty, your talent your mind and spirit. So long as they can pretend to shine through your light, they will be okay with you. Always trying to steal the spotlight. They will be happy with all their people stopping to look at you, because it makes them look good and gets them attention, connection or gets them in the door and noticed. If they feel adored even if it’s because they get compliments on your behalf, they see themselves as mighty, because they have captured such a rare mind/beauty/ friendship or talent. You become a possession, not a person.
So be ware that their jealous and envious nature doesn’t stop them from trying to destroy that rare beauty and light. If they don’t get to keep you, their mentality is: “if they can’t have you, no body will.” Oh they will try to put you down so they can keep stealing light away from you.
So pray for those souls and recognize them, wave hello, and goodbye and don’t try to understand them, don’t fear them just know they have no remedy through your friendship only through their own will.
Look at their actions not their words. If they say their your friend but frequent your foes, let them go. Be grateful, Life is full of good people who will see you from truth and love. God puts those people in your way always. They are the only ones who don’t bother you or expect you to do anything for them their just happy to hear good news. They want to share with you the good moments in their lives and make you participant in their story. They celebrate your success by contributing not by taking from you.
So life your life to the max, pray, dance, love, live, laugh and explore. Help this world, be an example, stay the course, don’t follow the pack.
Keep walking, keep on s
ODMO18
