[Verse 1]
I came to your door with a paper bag
Scuffed-up shoes and a coat too big
Thirteen years and a guarded heart
You read my eyes like a grocery list
You said, “Honey, come on in”
Set a blue plate down with a grin
And I stood there still as a fencepost rail
Waitin’ on the world to fail
[Pre-Chorus]
But your hand was steady
Your voice was low
Like a screen door slam in the summer glow
You did not flinch
You did not run
You made a hard house feel like home
[Chorus]
You were the first man
The first man
To ever make me feel safe
You were the first man
The first man
Who loved me in a stay
(Stay)
You kept the night away
(Stay)
You kept the fear at bay
You were the first man
The first man
To ever make me feel safe
[Verse 2]
You learned my silences by heart
Knew the look I wore when the walls got high
You never asked for a perfect kid
Just room enough for me to try
You taught me how to change a tire
How to say when my spirit’s hurt
How to trust a little more each day
And stand my ground in the dirt
[Pre-Chorus]
When my hands shook
You held them still
Like a bucket braced against a hill
You gave me time
You gave me room
And every room turned into bloom
[Chorus]
You were the first man
The first man
To ever make me feel safe
You were the first man
The first man
Who loved me in a stay
(Stay)
You kept the night away
(Stay)
You kept the fear at bay
You were the first man
The first man
To ever make me feel safe
[Bridge]
Now I’m grown and I’ve got my own boots
But I still hear your laugh in the hall
I know love can come with open hands
And not every man will let you fall
So if I ever have a little girl
I’ll know what your kind hands can do
You were the first one to call me daughter
And that changed everything I knew
[Chorus]
You were the first man
The first man
To ever make me feel safe
You were the first man
The first man
Who loved me in a stay
(Stay)
You kept the night away
(Stay)
You kept the fear at bay
You were the first man
The first man
To ever make me feel safe