I’m done, and let me just set the record straight here: this has nothing to do with not being domesticated or being “too hard to handle.” It has everything to do with the victim mentality you carry.
You act like a princess — expecting to be chased, catered to, and constantly accommodated while everything revolves around your schedule, your wants, and your comfort. This isn’t about you being incapable of being with someone, because that isn’t the issue. The issue is that you’ve put me through test after test, almost like you’ve been trying to prove your own assumptions right from the beginning.
It feels like you want someone damaged enough to accept behavior that requires little effort, because then your own toxic patterns become easier to justify. You claim to be a man, yet I’ve been the one opening my own doors, making the effort to see you, initiating most of the communication, and carrying the weight of showing interest.
And after over three months of talking, it’s honestly mind-blowing that you still can’t seem to figure it out. It should not take this long for someone to understand basic effort, communication, and reciprocity. At some point, it stops being confusion or uncertainty and starts becoming a choice. I’ve been showing up consistently, and you’ve still managed to act like the bare minimum is some impossible expectation.
What’s also incredibly immature is using the silent treatment as a form of punishment because you were called out on your shitty behavior. Adults communicate. They address issues, have uncomfortable conversations, and take accountability. Disappearing, withdrawing attention, and pretending someone doesn’t exist because you didn’t like hearing the truth is childish behavior, not emotional maturity.
What’s ironic is that I know I’ve been on your mind, but somehow a two-second message saying “I’m thinking about you” or “I hope you’re having a good day” seems like too much effort. In a world where technology makes communication easier than ever, that says more than enough.
